A Man Called Coach

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Today, Sunday January 26, 2014 brought the end of a chapter in the history of Quitman Independent School District.  Delbert Ballard went to that heavenly home that God had prepared for him.  

Delbert’s coaching career came to an end many years ago.  He continued serving the school in the capacity of administrator, teacher, bus driver or whatever task needed to be done.  For the past 50+ years he dedicated himself to raising a family and serving his school and community.  Even though he stopped coaching before many of the kids of this generation were born,  he was still “Coach.”   To this day, if you say the word “Coach” in Quitman, Texas everyone knows you are talking about Coach Delbert Ballard.

Up and until his health began to fail, if the lights were on at the gym, the football field or the baseball field, he and Mary were there.  Their own children have long since grown but they considered all students their children and were always there to support QISD athletics.

I first met Delbert Ballard in (I’m guessing now) 1966-67.  He was coaching in Quitman and Mary was teaching in Yantis.  Yantis is where I attended school.  Mary coached my first official basketball game as a 6th grader.  Some things stick out in your mind.  I remember the tournament as if it were yesterday.  It was held in the old South Franklin gym northeast of Winnsboro.  If I recall, we won that tournament.  Delbert was in the gym cheering us on…..possibly seeing if he could pick up some coaching tips from his wife!!

As time marched on and after I graduated high school, a series of events lead to a lifelong friendship with Delbert.  We played many golf tournaments together over a twenty year span.  We won a few and lost a few.  One thing was always a given…..we had fun.

Delbert was a fisherman.  And I mean a fisherman.  He was good.  Seemed like he could sense where the fish were.  We spent many hours on the water.  He always packed us a lunch.  Now he said that he made the sandwiches.  I’m not one to question him but I suspect that Mary got up early and fixed them for us.  Either way, they were good.  We fished Lake Fork but his absolute favorite was Lake Quitman.  No telling how many fish we caught up the creek east of the island.  I was a “fair weather fisherman.”  Delbert never met a day that wasn’t a good fishing day.  I remember one Saturday we had planned to fish Lake Monticello.  Unbelievably, when we went by the First National Bank the temperature said a balmy 18 degrees.  I remember thinking we were crazy and in fact, I made that comment.  Delbert’s reaction was, “It’s a power plant lake.  The water will be warm.”  Ok, I’m a sucker and went along with him.  Warm water and cold air make an interesting phenom called FOG.  It was so foggy that we could not see the front of the boat.  You may think I’m exaggerating but it’s the honest truth.  We slow trailed to the spot that he had planned to fish.  I didn’t wish for him to think I’m was a wimp so I didn’t say what I was thinking.  I’ll say it now.  I don’t know who is crazier, him for bringing me or me for coming along.  He was right about one thing, the water was warm.  Problem was we weren’t in the water.  We were in some COLD fog.  Every third or fourth cast we would have to clean the ice from the eyelets on the rods.  I managed to hang in for almost an hour.  I told Delbert I give.  He could take me back to the truck, leave me and he could fish all day if he liked.  We slowly made our way back to the truck, loaded the boat and headed back toward home.

Now this man didn’t give up when it came to fishing.  By the time we made it back to Quitman the temperature had risen to and amazing 34 degrees.  You would have thought since I “wimped out on him” he would have taken me home and dumped me out but NOOOOOOOO.  He decided it had warmed up enough that the fish at Lake Quitman would surely be biting.  SO, we spent the next 3 hours fishing his favorite lake.  I spent those three hours freezing my tail off.  From that day forward, I always checked the weather forecast and if it was going to be below 50, I mysteriously had something to do when he would call for a fishing trip.

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Delbert Ballard was more than a coach, an administrator, a lover of sports, a baseball fan, a golfer and a fisherman.  He was a good man…..Make that a great man.  The number of students he guided to a start down the right path in life would be too numerous to count.  But most of all, he was a great dad, granddad and great granddad.  He loved his family.  He married the love of his life, Mary.  Rarely, did you ever see them apart.  Their love radiated through their children.  Delbert was so proud of his kids.  They brought so much joy to his life.  He and Mary raised them right. They raised them in a loving Christian home.   Each of their children followed in their footsteps in becoming educators.  Each of their children also followed them in raising their own children in Christian homes.

I could go on for hours and I encourage you to post your thoughts in the comment section.

I am proud to call Delbert Ballard my friend.  I’m proud to call him a mentor and I’ll join in with the rest of the people who knew him.  I’m proud to call him Coach.

See you someday over the rainbow my friend.

 

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15 thoughts on “A Man Called Coach

  1. Larry Pittman

    Coach Ballard was a gentleman. I’ve had a lot of coaches for teachers and worked as a manager on the teams. Almost none could be called a gentleman (Coach Neighbors being an exception). I also went to church with him. He acted in public like the way he acted in church. That’s the way his family still live their lives. Ms. Mary was the vision of a Life Partner- she also taught me. We loved praying for the Coach, but I hope somebody does it right, and names a street and/or a Gymnasium, and/or an Annual Golf or Fishing Tournament. Do it right Quitman and honor a Legend who lived among you. –Larry Pittman

  2. Beverly Gunn

    A beautiful tribute to one fine man. He will be missed.

  3. Sheila Ratliff

    Maybe you don’t know or maybe you’ve just forgotten, but Coach Ballard also taught driver’s ed. I happened to be one of his students along with several other “kids” my age. How he kept his cool with all of us is beyond me, but he never lost his temper with us or scolded us for doing something wrong. He TAUGHT us! And he showed us that we could also have a great time having fun while we were learning. He’s been my neighbor for over 20 years now and I also got to know him in that capacity too. Always cheerful and always willing to help with anything that was needed. Yes, he will be remembered very fondly for so many things by so many people. And he will be greatly missed by all of us.

  4. Debbie Holland

    Coach Ballard was a wonderful man. When I first came to Quitman school, I was very nervous. He always greeted me with a huge smile and this really meant a lot to me. Simply stated…I loved him very much and I love his family very much. I’m so lucky to work with his family at school. They are all great educators and great people. This is his true testament…he lives on and I will continue to see him every day through the actions of his children and grandchildren who treat their students and their fellow educators with compassion and respect, just like their father and grandfather.

  5. John Benedict

    I had the privilege to play basketball for him. He was more than a coach to me. took me under his wing and went that extra mile. He was also my drivers ed teacher.Since drivers ed and baseball were at the same time , Coach gave me a ‘pass” and let me mostly skip that class so I could be at baseball practice. I made it through class and passed my drivers test so whatever we did must have worked…lol..My mom also baby sat the Ballard’s youngest daughter, Crystal. My dad had just passed away so that additional income was a blessing. What a great family. Sorry to hear of Coach Ballard’s passing. He will be missed….Oh, Coach also umpired some games I pitched. We may not have always agreed on some of the calls 🙂 I’m sure he was the one who was right though.

  6. Delbert Ballard was a great athlete, coach, dedicated educator and administrator. Above all of this, Delbert was a man of integrity, possessing great empathy for young children and students, and was a positive influence on his colleagues, students, and parents in Quitman School District. His legacy will live on through those that he touched.

  7. Barry George

    What a gentleman! He was a role model for any man. Our loss is Heaven’s gain.

  8. Neal Sutton

    Delbert Ballard was one of the finest men with whom I ever worked. As a band director, you rely on the support of the administration and he was a shining example of how to do it: caring, kind, gentle, strong, firm, and just. His lessons still resonate with me today, and I hope that I have passed them on to my sons. He will be missed.

  9. Sandra Grider

    Teacher, neighbor and boss. I experienced Coach Ballard in all three capacities and always found him to be a friend, a supporter and encourager. There will be a gaping hole in our community as we adjust to the loss but just imagine the reunion in heaven. Wouldn’t the world be a better place if we could all leave such a legacy. God’s blessings to Delbert’s family.

  10. A very beautiful tribute..I am glad I had the opportunity to read it..Thanks.

  11. Mike Ballard

    Thanks for the beautiful tribute to my brother and best friend. I know what you are talking about. There’s nothing like going across Lake Quitman and breaking the ice as you go. But he knew a sand bar on Coke Road Creek where we could catch lots of fish and after our lures quit bouncing on the ice we sure did. He was the most determined individual I ever knew…that was my brother.

  12. tanya mcschooler

    I always respected the fact that he was an example of a true christian. He always has a positive word for the kids no matter who you were, if you had money or not , short or tall, black or white you were always treated the same……with lots of love! You will truely be missed!

  13. Mindy Haffner

    Your tribute is beautiful and fitting for a wonderful man.

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